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Health & Fitness

Resolving the Fatherless Dilemma

Fox’s O’Reilly has a national conversation going about the disintegration of the African American family and the social ills caused by fatherlessness.  Don Lemon of CNN and Bill Cosby are a couple of prominent blacks who agree with him. Although I often disagree with O’Reilly, in this case he is right on. The fatherless trend is not just a black issue, but the percentage among blacks is much higher than other groups (blacks: 73%; hispanics: 53%; whites: 29%) and growing. Many feel the  fatherless epidemic is the root cause of many of our social ills today. Many of the fathers do not stick around to raise their children or provide support. 70% of kids in juvenile detention are from fatherless families. Children from fatherless families are twice as  likely to drop out of school and be involved in juvenile crime and more likely to be suspended from school. 50% of young mothers having out of wedlock births were themselves raised by single parents, continuing the cycle.  Fatherlessness is a serious problem in Manchester as well as in the city.

What can be done? FatherworksCT may slow the epidemic. Fatherworks, operated by Hartford’s Village for Children, seeks out young fathers between 15 and 24 years old from the streets , the courts and the schools in Greater Hartford, including some from Manchester. The program offers training in parenting and co-parenting, job skills, resume development, conflict resolution and provides case management. Graduates from  the 15 week program help recruit other young fathers to sign on.  Currently there are 48 young fathers in the program. 50% of them were absent fathers when they entered the program.

Arthur Scott,  a young father and recent graduate from Fatherworks and Kevin Outar, Outreach Coordinator, appear on Manchester Review this month to describe the program. Scott says “I’ve learned that it’s not about me, its about my child. A child needs a father and a mother. I am not a child anymore , I am a parent.”This is a program that would fit right in with the mission of Manchester’s Office of Neighborhood and Families. Can it be replicated in Manchester?

Manchester Review “Fatherworks” can be seen Mondays at 9PM in August on Cox PATV 15 or on You Tube at any time (Google: Fatherless Dilemma and a Solution). For more information about the program or to refer a young father go to Fatherworks on Facebook,Twitter (@FatherWorksCT), Fatherworks@villageforchildren.org or call 860-236-4511.

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